Find out what you want
If you are not happy with any area of your life then why aren’t you doing anything about it? You know what you need to do, get up off of your ass and go! Do it. If you don’t like something in your life you have two options, You either do something to change it or you don’t.
Most people are great at picking out the negative things in life and a lot of them even know how to fix them, and yet they go on living their unfulfilling lives. Next time you see something you don’t like, instead of complaining, go and fix it. Most people get caught in the planing stage. Planing about what you need to do to fix your your problem is important, but as soon as you know what you should do, go and do it!
If anything is not how you want it in your life and you are not actively taking action to change it, guess what? You don’t really want to change it. Don’t ever settle for a life that you don’t absolutely love, DO NOT GET COMFORTABLE.
Stop worrying about what others think!
Be yourself. Screw everyone else’s opinion of you,always have open ears and be loving to everyone, but don’t let their beliefs weigh you down. In the end when you are simply yourself life becomes a whole lot easier. You no longer should worry about what others think of you and instead focus on what you feel is right. I will tell you this, in the long run, if you take action and do things, it does not mater what you do, enough actions over time will take you to where you want to go, which brings me to, know where you are going! How the hell are you going to get somewhere if don’t know where it is that you are going. Set goals! A goal is simply a dream with a deadline. Get clear on what your dreams are, and when they will happen, once those two things are in place you simply need to go get it! Dream big and then take action, ever step you take is one step closer.
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t — you’re right.” -Henry Ford
Life is a river, but for the vast majority of people in this world it’s a lazy river. These people simply climb on to their inner tube and let the current take them where ever they need to go. When ever I go to a water park with my brothers, the Lazy River is always one of my favorite attractions. You know why? Because the lazy river is a race course for us. You paddle and swim and pull your way to victory. Don’t just sit in your inner tube of life and let the current take you were everyone else is going.
Know what you want and go and get it. A lot of the time the things you want are up stream, so guess what,you are going to need to work for it. People will tell you; It’s impossible;You will never make it! That’s just not how life works! You need to pay your bills! You can’t afford to lose this job! You can’t do it! What these people are actually saying is; I don’t believe in myself, nobody does it like that so it can’t possibly work. You see people get caught in the “right way” to do things. Oh no the current is too strong I could never swim up this stream, but whats stopping you from climbing out of the water and running on land! Stop letting other people think for you and start believing in yourself.
Make your choice, do you want your life to always be how it is now? Or do you want to make your dreams a reality? If you chose the latter, then Go Get It!